ITS TIME TO WAKE UP :)

Life is not an easy journey to travel, it comes with lots of ups and downs, twist and turns, yet we get stuck to our comfort zones, ignore to try something new and powerful change.

why we hesitate so much and take a step back to try and work on new things to achieve???? i guess its time for us to press the button of wakeup within our self and move out of our comfort zones, try changing the old laid back attitude to move out and achieve our strength facing our own fears!!!

Its time to wake up and get to the path of successful and meaningful life, and try to focus on things which have always ignored and  never paid attention.

so lets wake up for the good and better world for self awakening of our soul within...... 

known yet unknown

Sometimes little things do matter no matter how small  they are, even a simple walk or a smile on a child face, eating your favourite chocolates basically doing what u like which gives you happiness.
These days due to our busy schedule we hardly have time for our self, just ask yourself when was the last time you did for yourself, in this fast pace life of ours we tend to miss the real deal of being true to our own self, we do, act. Behave, see things for others instead of for own self's.

Even a simple cup of Chai works wonder sometimes to pep your mood from a bad day, so next time no matter how hard your day was, just enjoy doing things which you like the most which keeps you motivated.

Remember don't forget to live your life to the fullest

jealousy

why do we get jealous ??? i still wonder, is it a simple man made or our constant rise of expectation from people around us or with yourself, its a feeling of being taken away from you which you love very much or losing all the attention, love and care from someone, its a bundle of all the little things which we always fail to understand clearly.

when was the last time you felt jealous about something, might be anything, from a silliest thing to big thing, from a neighbour getting a new car, or  your colleague going on a vacation abroad, or your cousins getting a good marks in exams or your sibling getting new things , somewhere all this is centered with us we being connected to everything which matters to us very much. is it because of our insecurities, facing failures, not meeting self expectations,or constant thinking about impressing or comparing with others all the time? its a very tricky puzzle to solve but after all we are humans, we tend to get attached to all the materialistic things in life, then get very possessive about it, might be anything even a relationship, sometimes we do get very carried away in our behaviour.

is it a bad thing or good thing i don't know but sometimes its good to be jealous in a healthy way but once its crosses the limits its a danger mark line not to be crossed, so next time when you get jealous about something just pause for a minute and think why am i getting affected and question yourself and think about it you will find the answers in someway :)  

Tornado of June #faith #truelove #god #inspiration

June 2014 is the month i can never ever forget in my life, June 2014 has changed my life for ever in every way, i would like to name as it tornado of June, the way tornado come and sweeps away everything on its way, same thing happened with my life, in similar way it has changed my life in very aspect, it has changed the way of my life in thinking, thought process, my lifestyle, my responsibility in every small way.

June 5, 2014 the day i met my lady love, i never thought my life would change so fast in a nearly 10 days, things have come at the right time with right place, with the right person, after all the wait, it was worth for finding your true love even i had to wait for long time, what all i can say is patience was worth, i know its a very strange but yes you do find your true love, the way you deserve you get.i want to thank all my well-wishers, my family for everything what i am today, for what i have got.

good things come at right time no matter how much you need to struggle have that faith in you and in god, he gives you what you deserve in every small way which you could never ever imagine, but yes never loose that hope keep that faith burning in your life, it takes you long way......

'' M ''

All of sudden things are moving so swiftly and so fast,  i am literally shocked with the pace, life is giving me so many surprises, which will decide my future, and people around me are also somewhere responsible for the final outcome about to happen in my life.....but still i am standing in the middle taking each step slowly and steadily to see the outcome in right direction.

sometimes  events change our life so much that by the time we realise we hardly feel or remember those important  moments .....all of a sudden only topic left in my life is the big word ''M'', even the unexpected people have started  asking me about this word ''M'', i know the world is always behind you for everything, still we need to go through this .... and experience the journey, its not a easy thing to do, but still we need to hold ourselves and keep moving forward in a right direction, to achieve our dreams, The word ''M'' comes and gives you an extra needed support in your life.

The ''M'' word  for me is more than just what it means, but some deep sense of happiness in its whole existence, everyone has to go though and experience this ''M'' in their life, so i guess i just need to be more relaxed and calm and take things step by step to welcome  the word ''M'' IN MY LIFE.

The feeling of emptiness.......

The feeling of emptiness....... yes its strange but we do experience the emptiness in our lives with so many reasons even after being content with all the happiness and joy life around us. currently feeling like i am travelling with a tornado with all the ups and downs again and again.

i guess this is just a part of our lives, the journey is not same, the road we take matters a lot, but still we may find it difficult to cross it. why our personal lives takes a big hit on the decisions which are very crucial and life changing, feeling of emptiness is somewhere being forced upon us, to take a decision on  which others want not what we want, why suddenly our happiness is ignored , why some decisions are made to show to biased society....

i guess  these are the emptiness of  our mind, we take decision to please others but not ourselves, we remain happy to make someone else happy, but not us, we do all the things to others but not for us, all our life we do everything for others but what have you done to yourself to feel content and happy ????????

is the big question we need to answer it. 

so whatever you do next time ask yourselves first "is this for me or for others".

New Year New Hopes

Firstly Happy New Year everyone, i wish you all good health and prosperity.

New year brings new hope, new aspirations, past year has been very challenging in terms of every aspects for me especially mentally, many hiccups, failures and roadblocks faced still happy and feels good  for such a good learning experience we go through some time, we may curse the situation but for every roadblock we face there are hidden goodness for us.

sometimes the patience level is tested to its core limit, we may not know the real reasons behind it but i guess for every hardship we go through there is that silver lining for us to feel good about it, and believe the positivity for ourselves to lead a happy life even though we may go through rough patch,but still after every sunset there is  always a bright sunrise next day, so believe in yourself and in your dreams.

learn the mistakes and hardships from past year and prove yourself like a shining STAR in coming year.

The confusion Ride.........

The roller coaster ride of my life never stops i guess, one after other i have been passing still there is big confusion and anxiety in my mind on few thoughts which are bothering me over and over again from quite some time, i guess these are normal still being complicated and making me more nervous...... 

don't know why i have been given so tough challenges so often, one after the other, still there is little hope of light i see and purpose in all these, for a moment i feel bad, lost, still i need to gather all my hopes and move with the wind on the rough sea to conquer my fears which i have battling with my self, and my own thoughts  from so many years, suddenly there are so many changes around me now,  in all the aspects of my life, i have been battling with my own beliefs which were right according to me but now seems to be wrong, don't know why these confusions of errors keep happening with me always.

some times we need to fight our toughest and the best battles alone to see our  best efforts to unleash our own strengths,to bring out  the best in us to realize our true potential, sometimes failures are good ...but when failures keep knocking your door very often then its time to look back at the errors created and correct it !!!!

lazy thoughts .........

Sitting on my couch on a Sunday evening just wondering how the world would be with someone new around me sharing my life with??????????? i am clueless, there comes a time in ones life where one has to go through this society norm ceremony with lavish big fat wedding, why this has become one big stigma in our society to get married..........maybe i should get some good views from married couple or need to look within ourselves and society.

we being part of society directly or indirectly are to be blamed for this stigma, though i respect the marriage nor i am against it, it just that the way it is built across the family and society, and projected in young minds in a very shallow way i guess, the society creates the bad impression of people and the family where the so called marriageable age crosses and looked very badly as though they have done some crime ........ seriously this is totally bullshit.

i guess at the end marriage is beautiful union of two souls for new journey with lots of colors in it to be enjoyed and experienced in a way it has to be done, maybe i should get these answers when i will find the one i am looking for and may be enjoy the journey called marriage and understand and respect it with time......

Unknown feeling of happiness:)

life is full of surprises, with special feelings,beautiful people come into your life with so many love and affection, the very feeling is something very hard to describe or to express, though i am not talking about the love, still some feelings cant be measured, it has to be felt with in your heart with the soul, enjoying those special moments make your life so easy, its gives you sense of comfort and easiness in our thoughts and thinking, suddenly there is so much of freshness and big smile on your face which you are proud to carry.

even a simple gesture from unknown person, or a pretty smile form small kid, reason may be thousand but ultimately the answer is within our self to lead the life in our own way to keep moving no matter what happens, treasure these special moments which are extremely beautiful to cherish lifelong.

2 Minds 1000 Thoughts

There are many feelings and situation in life,which cant be expressed, it needs to be just felt, right now at this time feeling like the whole universe is against me and my happiness, whatever i start or try doing things, i just cant achieve that, feels like someone is holding me back and trying to keep me away from my dreams and happiness which i deserve.

is it just a thought or a self created in my mind, i don't know still, but i guess some times when you go through the rough phases in life you tend to get adjusted to that phase if the same situation keeps on going for quite some time, we tend to believe and give self assurance for the perfect day in coming days to come, there are thousands of thought running in my mind still feel the insecure feeling in my mind "why always me"...........

it just a thought, it will get better and hoping one day there will be that beautiful day ahead ............

The Moments

there are many great beautiful moments in our lives where we feel special, and some teaches us tough lessons, no matter how much you try things fall apart, we fail miserably, still every lessons come with tough lessons to be learnt and some has silver lining to it, its a blessing in disguise, these days falling in love is also a big question mark no matter how clean you are still people don't give damn about that, there are few moments which comes at right time, may be now we feel things are completely against us, even after so many setbacks, and failures we may loose our hopes but still deep down inside there is a voice which tells us to keep moving no matter what happens, it always pushes us to walk towards our dream. 

tough times teaches us many bitter true reality of our understanding towards our own life and the people we relate to,  these bitter lessons gives us a chance to see life from all new perspective with new hope to lead a life in a new positive way with people whom you can trust without any hesitation, after all life is not always a cakewalk, it has some sweet and some sour moments, we need to enjoy both equally, appreciate things and keep moving.

Make beautiful moments which we need to treasure it, for years to come, so keep smiling :)

Midlife Confusions

Go live your life to the fullest, the heart says but do we really do and understand what our heart says, or we have just stuck in between heart and mind, there comes the time in your life when you don't know which road to take,you just get stuck from all the corners, more deeper and deeper, where all the roads lead to confusion,your career, personal life, social relations, personal ambitions,your wishes and wants takes the beat, like a Mohamed Ali knock out punch, u fall flat on the ground, without realizing the after effects of that, the worst part is when you are doing nothing  in terms of progress in all departments of life, when everybody takes you for granted, you realize, the best people have become your worst, people close to you have gone more far, this particular phase is the worst time a individual has to go through, so basically all the questions leads to one why the hell this midlife confusions come ???????

very interesting to know why this midlife confusion happen at a particular age between 30-40, for some lucky souls it happens early, just to give a thought why really, is it because we have a lost ourselves in the race to prove to others rather than ourselves, or have we forgotten the child within us which is fearless pure soul which is always positive, or have we lost ourselves in this artificial life, just confusions all over, everybody wearing a mask with different identities without knowing which is the real one, everyone is busy to prove others wrong, with their big ego and earning money, or have we lost the real essence of leading a simple life which is more peaceful, and sweet???

at the end all the roads ask one question and the answer is common for all the road irrespective of which road you choose, you as a individual leading your life in a right way or you are leaving some one else dream, it is up to every individual to decide whether they can break their  midlife confusions to midlife happiness :)

Midlife Confusions

Independence Day

 Today we celebrated our Independence Day like every year, we hoisted our National Flag, remembered our freedom fighters, gave some patriotic speeches, sang few songs, and gave lessons of Unity to country with importance of Independence Day.

Are we fully Independent today even after 65 years of freedom, we need to find this answer within ourselves.

even after 65 years, our country is struggling with corruption, caste system, unemployment, weaker economy,and many other social issues. still we are least bothered to raise our voice against all these issues. in real terms we are not independent still from our past thoughts and thinking, we still way behind in our actions, and but  to fulfils our egos and selfish needs.

                                 

Its time we take our stand, do our bit in small way to see the change we all wish for and get the real Independence what we dream for. Jai Hind :)

PATIENCE..............

Patience such a big word to all of us, wondering LIFE without it, still we don't have it completely, no matter how much we try to ignore it still plays a vital role in our lives, patience helps us at every stage of life no matter what one goes through it teaches us so much,  in time of adversity to success the journey is incomplete without it, so have a little patience no matter how late is the result, it makes you more and  more stronger, LONGER THE WAIT BETTER THE RESULTS so next time around think smile and have patience in everything 

patience has always been a big support for all the tough fights we fight in everyday battle,  no matter how difficult is the situation is, we do come out of adversity and face the world with our success, without which our journey is incomplete, no matter how far is the finishing line the winner always knows his patience will be paid one day for his hard work, for every drop of sweat,   HIS DAY OF SUCCESS  will come one day :) 

no matter how long it takes to reach the top keep working towards your dream you will be successful ONE DAY & THAT DAY WILL BE YOUR DAY 

The Journey

03/10/2009  the day i started my blog, its been a short yet long journey, i have shared my experiences in writing with everyone,want to thank every one who have visited my blog from allover, today 18/03/2012, i am writing my 50th  post, it gives me a sense of happiness in sharing my thoughts with everyone, who have supported in my writing, and all those friends who have always pulled my leg for writing sentiiii posts, but yet respect every one's opinions, and thanks for all the support and hope the journey of my writing continuous and and i can improve and share more thoughts and experiences which are yet to come.

every journey has a reason,which u can define in your way - Harsh Surana

the day 17/03/2012 the day the man who have spent 22 years of international cricket has achieved the unthinkable feat, yet his journey form 99 to 100 was not so easy, Sachin took 1 year and 4 days to complete the 1 century, but yet every time he failed he became more stronger, his journey is and will be a great inspiration for ages to come and there is so much to learn for the man who have achieved so much still  he thinks he is not 100% perfect, , discipline, dedication, the hunger, will power, what he has shown over the years is a great learning for all of us, which we can get inspire and adapt in our lives, and be a successful in what ever we do.

so enjoy your journey whether smooth or with the twist, keep it going, because the journey is incomplete if you don't fail, without failure your success is incomplete.- Harsh Surana 

New Year New Thoughts

2011 has been a big roller coaster ride year for me, literally have felt so many ups and downs, still it was a beautiful year in terms of knowing myself much more closely and  clearly. the whole year had its sharp turns,all kind of shockers, surprises, good news, bad news, betrayal, faith, and many things. if i take this whole situation as a story then it would be like i did my internship in a company called LIFE, and under guidance of Mr GOD The Ultimate BOSS!!!!!!!!!!! 

the whole experience of your internship is always special no matter where you do, it always hold the special place in your heart, it gives us so many valuable lessons, truth, we learn so many things, commit so many mistakes, the BOSS always correct us in different manner of course, depending upon the way you respond to him, really god helps us at every single step we take, he always follow us no matter what happens, some times he test us so badly that for a moment we start hating him, but we forget that he loves us very much, the faith and hope are the true pillars for the existences of our life without these two we are nothing.

 its  all about the perfect timing, God gives us all the deserved things at the right time, keep the faith in him, he will always be in your side no matter how big the storm is, he will always be behind you to give the strength and courage to face the storm, so be tough, keep smiling, feel strong, and be happy no matter how worst the situation is, things will get better....................... TRUST HIM :):):):)

Setbacks

life is strange, it never goes as per what we plan, it always throws surprises at each turn.  its been a big learning phase for me as a person, some how some where i have gone wrong many times but still feels everything is still perfect, don't know what is wrong still, my decisions where right, timing was right still i have failed, today i am not ashamed either to admit that i have failed badly, i have been learning the most important  lessons at a crucial stage of my life, the age where we are seen the next big thing in the family, society, and  others. now it all depends on how i take all this forward and gather my strength in one way to make things happen.

really there are many instances in life you take those hard decisions for what u believe strongly, somehow it may be wrong sometimes, life is full of surprises, really we cannot control our life like our TV remote , the channels of life keeps changing and we need to act according to different situation.

we need to believe our self, keep the faith alive and keep it firm in our heart no matter what happens we need to keep moving forward to achieve our dreams no matter how many times we fail, keep trying keep trying till your dreams come true, the road to your dreams is not easy so be ready to face those all challenges which are coming in your way and climb the ladder of success with..................fill in your own answers i guess u know :)

Being a Zero

Have you ever thought of being a zero, i guess nobody wants to be a zero no doubt in that, but the reality is different, at least once in a lifetime you will feel the importance of zero. from our childhood we have been thought the importance of zero, which is the most important number in all numerical, still it has the power to  make or break.i am not trying to justifying or writing the importance of zero but trying to think from different viewpoint this time.

there are certain phases in our life when you pass them, you learn so many things of which some may be very useful and some may be not, the phase of being a zero is very difficult, when things never go perfectly as what you think, there are many hurdles to be crossed, many questions to be answered, to oneself & everyone, many criticism & rejection to be taken for your action, getting punches for all the wrong and right moves you take even though we fight in a perfect manner, still we fail to meet expectations, you fail to achieve as per the plans, and self expectations, still you need to fight those battle within you and with the world to prove your value of being a zero.

still zero is a zero,which is the beginning for every thing you do. no matter how many times you get those  hard knocks in life, no matter how many times you fall, still you need to stand up each time and prove the real value of being a zero and prove the world that zero is the maker for everything, after all everything has to start from zero  and end with zero whether you like it or not , at least you will be a zero now or later but you will be one day, so keep smiling and enjoy being a zero because ........................... you know why :)

A Look Within..........

Have you ever wondered how it feels when you are capable of achieving so many things in life still life’s gives you in bits and pieces?  Really even though as a person you may be talented you may have achieved the targets, still it gets unnoticed among your friends, family, colleagues. This very feeling leads to frustration, anger, ego, rejection, and many more…… These are very common feeling I guess everyone goes through in their professional and personal life.

Really that feeling is very bad, it leads to self introspection and we tend to feel and question our own capabilities and talent, we may not think in that way but the world around us makes us feel so …………………really it takes a lot on our mind, how much ever you work hard the extra work you put in with 100 % commitment, still all goes in vain, really it’s really demoralizing, this leads us to push into the negative frame of mind.

So how the hell you avoid this, either you accept this and keep working the same way or move on and gain a new dimension to your life, moving out of your comfort zone, thinking in a new way, really this is not so easy as it sounds but neither it is impossible. so pull up your socks, you need to make some tough decisions, and move yourself completely in new direction and make some good choices where you are respected for what you are, what you do and what you will be in years to come, and after ages when you look back and think about all this don’t regret for not taking the right step at the right moment.

The ?

Its been a while now, been little away  from writing but some events and stories forced me to think from different perspective, was going through some article on net and got to know some real persons, real stories , real situation, where every one can relate to themselves, don't know where to start , how to start.

there are many instances in our life where we need to choose the road , some hard decision which can completely change our life .....we would have taken some tough decisions in our  life, i know its not the easiest thing to do, but its a tough call,  the Final call  is a challenging phase of life , when we need to deal with so many things at the same time, trust me its frustrating! at some point of time when we think about it and realize how that one decision has changes our life, i guess each one of us have taken taken a tough call in our life at least once, it would have been about your career, love, family, friendship, and many other

behind that one decision there are so many things which we go through , i know its not the best part , but we need to face all sorts of things, listen to every shit from everyone, the pressure is enormous, but still we become the punching bag for everyone in the family, i know i am sounding too harshhhhhhhh but i think that's the truth , which we hide from ourselves, we hardly listen to ourselves and hardly understand ourselves better.

really finding little difficult on how to finish it but i think that's the way it is, we need to search those answers by ourselves, because each answers are different .....................

The final call

There are many final calls we need to make in our lives, but the most important I feel is the career & marriage call.

I wonder how one makes that final call; I still wonder what makes one individual to say the final yes?????? I am clueless about it, but still I am curious to know about that. I need to feel it myself, never the less you may meet that person anywhere, you never know when, where!

It’s all start with that first look into those eyes, where the story begins…………. I know I know it’s a special feeling, I can see a smile on your face now and you have started thinking about the special person. 1^st look starts with smile and a new journey begins in search of the soul you always wanted to be part of. There are many reasons just more than looks, smile, which brings two individual together, may be its destiny which plays a bigger role i think.

may be time will tell what it takes to say the Final Yes....... 

Being yourself

It’s been a while now, I have been away from writing, and really it’s difficult to manage to do things what we love to do, things have been good for a while now touch wood, all thanks to the God.

Success doesn’t come so easily after all, we always complain about it no matter you have the best job in the world, or all the things we desired , still we keep complaining about all the small little  things . Once you start climbing the corporate ladder we get so busy with the work, that hardly we have any time for ourselves, we forget the real fun, laugh, good time, no matter how busy you are, people think we have changed.

Living for others or living for us is the question which is just popping out of mind?? Think for a while we get the answer, all our life we always try to impress others, rather than ourselves, impress teachers, friends, and others……………….. Why we try so hard to impress others so much rather being ourselves. May be we are forced to do so, but things can change if you want, just try and feel the difference , do what you like, eat what to love the most, do whatever you like the most. Definitely the whole perspective will change.

 I know my thoughts are not the same now it’s been changing its ok not a problem, there are so many things which I want to write now, but time is a big constraint now, hope things will change for all the good reasons. If you feel you have so many things to share but still you can’t let it out, just try and vomit it out, because it feels better.  Just try to pen it down if you can, so take a chill pill, keep rocking, enjoy J

THE POWER OF BELIEF

hi guys,  its been a quite a long time now, back to writing mode after lots of ups and downs. its been a rocking experience, i must confess, really i thank god for everything, for showing me the true meaning of belief and testing my patience level much above the end limit. 

the power of belief means a lot to everyone in different ways, the way we hold ourselves in times of difficulties, remain calm, face the situation as it comes makes you more stronger and your belief in god and yourself increases day by day, what if the trust and belief you lose each day from yourself and god? there are many occasions where we lose all the hopes and belief, we stop being positive, we loose our hopes and belief slowly day by day, you feel you have tried each and all possible ways to gain or reach your destination but still you fail to achieve them, you feel your luck is not playing his role, god is not listening to your prayers, nobody is standing beside you in time of difficulties, you start loosing yourself, you loose all the faith and move away from yourself.?????

that's the moment  you need to pump yourself, you need to hold your nerves and keep running until you cross the finish line, because no race is complete unless you complete it, so next time when you feel the pressure of failures and disappointments, just look up and smile, he gives you the happiness at right time which you deserve so be happy for your failures and disappointments  they teach you the most valuable lessons which will remain in you forever so be happy and feel special for being god favorites :) :) :) :) :) :) 

Let the good times roll

Every day, every week, every month, every year  begins with new hope, aspiration and belief , we always wish for the best and good moments and live it on. as each year pass on  weather changes and our times changes with lots of ups and downs and lots of challenges and battle to face on whether we like it or hate it we need to face .

so cheer up no need to worry because tough times don't last too long, there is always a sunshine after long dark night, after many ups and downs there is always a bright happy day waiting for you with lots of happiness, positive side of life no matter how many times you fail remember that your day will come and believe me it will be your day ....................... SO CHILL RELAX ENJOY AND WELCOME NEW YEAR WITH LOTS OF HAPPINESS AND LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

SPECIAL SHOT OF PAIN

Failure has been the daddy of all success, no matter how big you have succeeded u have felt the failures before.i know giving lectures on failures  / writing on failures is not a big deal, but when u have seen how painful some times it can get to pass through this phase at that very moment u will feel the real punch.

the tough  time teaches you everything, it makes you to adapt and think differently, makes you more determined and hopeful, you will get the real darshan of people around you and their behavior towards you when you are on struggling mode of your life, experiencing failure is not difficult but the attitude of your family, relatives, friends and neighbors makes the life HELL..................  because meeting and filling the gap of expectation is very difficult task but we cant escape from it either. it becomes a roller coaster ride and you behave like  a kid waiting for the special day when you will get success,and  hopefully u guys can feel the same.

really the feelings which we go through this phase is pain in the ............ but still we need to move forward with that pain in search of success and keep that smile on our face and move on and keep your hopes alive because when your time period of failure is more than everybody then be happy that your success is greater than everyone and will be the best ,,,,,,,,,,, so just chill , relax and enjoy the phase called "FAILURES "

when hope fades away.....................

there are many situations in our life which are the most crucial and important to us, many dreams aspirations are associated with it, but for some or other reasons there are many hurdles and speed breakers to it. every big dreams, plans, has to go through high pressure and big test. our life is based on hope which we learn from our childhood, never loose your hopes,these lessons are thought to us at very early stage of our life, pray to god he is always there for us to keep our hope alive. is this always true ??????????????????????????????

 even a hope fades away slowly without being known to us, all the dreams and plans just crashes down when you dint achieve what you had planned for, nothing work in your way, when you fail very badly, when you could not meet the expectations as wished for, everything just messes up very badly you hardly notice any hope left , your morale goes all time low, your willpower hits all time low, you feel like a big loser and lost a big battle.

these  thoughts keep running in our minds when we are in those difficult situation but experience makes us better no matter what you have been through there is always a scope for you to fight back all the tough times and difficulties you have faced, no matter how many people you have lost in the journey who have shown the true colors to you, you will see the best near to you, it just take a few moments to realize that without loosing any battle you cant be called a great warrior, you need to loose some big battles of your life in order to accomplish the great goals and dreams, there is always a light seen at the end of the tunnel so don't worry, when you are in a big mess of your life no matter how badly you feel the heat, just sit back and look up in the sky and think think that hopes do come back after a short holiday .........................................

being a loser....................:)

road to success is not a cake walk after all, its been very twisting situation,sometimes life throws so many hurdles all at once, it becomes very difficult to think differently, it never goes in your way always, after all there is no fun winning every time, its necessary for us to loose sometimes, failure shows the real shadow to us, about the people and situations we are surrounded by. its not always that everyone will help u, u need to realize that everybody has reasons for a association, u get the real taste of person and his character when your in the big mess of your life, at the same time there are few connections which are free life long , and some have limited talk time. so being a looser sometimes is not always bad , it shows the real world to u, and your limits to what extent u can try for good results . i know nobody wants to be looser, but everyone has to go through this phase once in a lifetime nobody can escape from it, so next time when u think u have lost something , don't worry think that its a game of life, u can do well in your next chance and keep that hunger for success in your tummy alive always no matter what situation you face,u can always win against your self and keep doing better every time, so chill,relax and enjoy the party of your life happily 

THE TEACHER.........

hi to every one who thought me a lesson list begins from my parents, family, friends, teachers, enemy's, well wishers, colleagues and unknown people and last but not the least my self and god. today is a teachers day and i wish all my teachers from my heart for the valuable lessons thought to me by them.

really this day is not only associated with teachers but with our selves, everyday without realizing so many lessons we teach ourselves unknowingly we learn from our mistakes, makes little extra efforts in our work, a Little support we provide to our friends, and needy.our life teaches the biggest lessons to our selves compared to all the things , sometimes experiences show the direction to our life in difficult circumstances in failures and disappointments. they say that experience is the toughest teacher one can have it makes you to bare the most difficult situations and problems and make you realize your true potential within ourselves, it helps us to discover the capability inside us to fight back all the odds and achieve our dreams no matter how tough is the journey we need to be firm and positive to complete it. 

sometimes a little encouragement will work wonder, it helps us to boost the confidence in a person, so next time don't be a greedy or hesitate to  know these lessons which are priceless which cannot be experience until we face them, some experience early and some later , but nobody can escape from them so be positive , in what ever comes in your way and face them happily with a big smile and learn the best lessons from your experiences and life and cherish them life long 

HARSH SURANA

the best moments

I guess happy thoughts makes happy life :) there is so much to tell, experience, share, the beautiful experiences of life, sometimes it so difficult to remember when did we laugh at the silliest joke or had a good fun with friends, I still remember my old days where we had so much fun in the classrooms making all sorts of nonsense gestures and sounds, where I was always famous for my loud voice and disturb teachers in between the classes, the days we were young ready to face the world with full of energy and passion to conquer, and last bencher's tags to our name by our teachers for our brave acts to entertain the whole class, to enjoy even on the most worst jokes, those were the true honest happiest moments which we have left somewhere in between our busy career life.

they say life is full of turning points, at every stage of our life we were said this was our turning points, as the journey took off we have been occupied by all sorts of words like competition, tension, stress, etc etc etc etc....where we got stuck forever, we never enjoyed the life as it has to be lived, why we left those smiles, jokes, big laughs, behind us, why don't we enjoy our life like our young days??? Why we always invite unwanted friends like stress, pain, tension with us always???

I think the time has come to throw away those unwanted and painful companion from our lives, and make a fresh start, realize the importance of small happiness around us, start enjoying those small moments in life, those simple occasions, where we can be our self, and start taking life little easy :)

the knock out ..........

it’s been a roller costar ride for me from past couple of months, trying to figure it out were exactly I went wrong, but I must say it’s not an easy task to assess yourself so easily. There are many instances in our life where we feel we didn't get what we are deserved to get but still we fail to-get those precious moments and dreams which we always live for. Those moments are tough to handle where we need to answer those questions by our self. really sometimes you feel so dejected and disappointed and u feel u have lost everything, your self confidence , your stake, your dignity......the list goes on, I think everyone must have gone through similar situation in their life at least once.

I can’t explain the exact feeling that every individual goes through this time but I am sure it’s not an easy time for us; this may be your final acid test of your life, a situation where your final outcome of this will decide your future destiny.

to bring in more clarity let take some real life instances where a young guy who is honest, sincere, filled with big dreams and passion, where he does everything to make his dreams come true, where he puts his 100% efforts, but still somehow he fails, many a times, he can’t understand why his efforts are going waste every time even though after all the hard-work and dedication???????This was not only the problem, at the same time his family was behind him to achieve things and he was upset he could not make his parents happy.

One day when he was sad, disheartened he thought he has lost the battle and lost all his hope. he was all alone thinking and was trying to understand where exactly he went wrong suddenly he heard a voice repeating his questions which were in his mind, for a moment he was confused and shocked, he screamed but he didn't find any one then he heard a voice again has he begun to listen to that strange voice again and again with concentration he saw a strange bright light appeared in front of him, suddenly light started explaining all the mistakes and weakness the boy made and made him realize why he went wrong again and again and told him that even though he gave 100% each time god tested him in all the possible way to assess you whether you are worth to get what you are asking.

whatever happens in our life there will be twist and turns, and the ride will be bumpy, the attitude what we show and think will make a whole difference in our life in achieving everything, don't get disappointed when u don't get what u have been dreaming of because god show the mirror of reality, he guides us and shows who are fake and real , he shows the true color of the world, so that we can make a better judgments in life...........the boy listens each word carefully and asks the guiding light a question, can u please tell me why did god made my journey so tough all these years,...........

The lights answered him by saying son look at you and ask yourself the same question? Boy we have all the answers within us it just we need to open our heart completely and look within .............and the guiding light vanishes........... The boy finally understood the essence of failures; he took this as a journey to be enjoyed not to regret and work harder and rise up each time u fall down to make your dreams come true no matter what happens.

The Questions Of Life..........

finally back to my blog after some long break................ just wondering why we need to pass the test of success and failures every time again and again... i know some of u may think it works like that, that how life goes, but just wait for a moment, hold your thoughts for a moment, just ask this question back to yourself and get the answer from within, i have been thinking a lot on this, still i cant find the perfect answer, why we need to strive so much when we deserve so much still we don't get that what we wish. when we look around and observe there are many people who have been fighting against all odds, overcoming all failures and hurdles in life, and fighting for what they deserve but still they don't get what they need, is it they have not put in their efforts??????????? i think some times with all the efforts and hard work some time we need that little luck in our favor , i known some of you may not agree but that's the reality i think, or it just the mind games ,,,, what we think, we get, our thoughts get into shape, still i am clueless but i guess its a mixture of everything makes our life complete, we tend to complain when we don't get what we want, we forget to realize the importance of that moment, may be the best come at right time when we deserve may be that's how life goes, still many miles to go before i can see and feel the essence of failures and success may be then i can give the real ,meaning of these unanswered thoughts..

Leaving your shadow

everyone has some things to speak, share,think,with others:) ooohhhhh wait a minute, i guess i missed some thing,,,,,,, when was the last time u shared some thing with yourself think think....?????? u got the answer oohhh i guess u must have.

we always share our life with others, each and everything in our life is associated with our family, friends, may be the small happiness, arguments, fights, success, fame,failures the list goes onnnnnnnnnn, but just take a minute and think out of so much of time have you ever given a minute to yourself.....we always forget to think about ourselves,we always miss out the small happiness, rather giving importance to all the big things in life.

we always get stuck in between the confusions and stressful life, we forget to enjoy ourselves, may be a simple hangout with friends, or spending time with your parents, wife, children,and sharing your inner self with trusted buddies..........we always live in our own boundaries and live in our shadows, we never try to come out of it, we make our own rules and stick to it forever, but have you ever thought of coming out of it at least once...... i don't think so.....

we should try something new and exciting in our life at each step at every defeat we should stand firm and keep your zeal alive in your life, just take a minute and think about what u have missed in life till now, never think u have missed your chance.. it just u need to leave your shadow once and lead your life in your own way to grab all those things which u thought u would have done :))))))

when things dont go our way.....

many times what we plan, don't go in that way , we see so many hurdles in our way, but still we go on that path... really sharing my experience i had many plans in my mind, but still they didn't go as per that, its almost 2 months now, sitting at home doing nothing, no job still, whole day watching TV, which i like very much, really its very sad to know about the reality of life , where they tell us economy is booming, but when we go to companies for job, they don't even entertain us, really my patience level is going day by day worst, its high time for me to start my professional life once again after break of 2 years, but hope things will brighten up, hope soon i will get a call from some company. really its very difficult to keep our mind in control when things don't go in our way.... i thought let me share my little problem with every one so wrote my own story this time, hope u guys understand.... :)

STRUGGLE

Life is a roller coaster, it can’t be smooth, it has to be enjoyed, what’s the fun without tasting the flavor of failure, in my view, the more u enjoy this more u will know yourself better. Really sometimes it makes me very sad why we need to struggle so much for what we wish for, it may be anything, from owning a car, a good house and job, and good future and the list goes on its never ending. But the reality is something else, we always runaway from the struggle, nobody wants to put that extra effort in our work, and want things very easily, whatever we wish for its has to be fulfilled, our wants have been fulfilled by our parents every time we demand from them, so we have lost the meaning of true value of hard work and struggle, whenever our parents tell some things about the future and related stuff , we always take their words and wisdom for granted, why we are failing to understand and running away from the most important aspect of our life.

In the period of digital world, we are missing the essence of life; we are losing the track of wisdom, hard work, and true meaning of life, we are losing our beliefs and culture where Indian parents always teach their kids about the right path to success is struggle and hard work, without struggle nobody can gain success, there is a famous saying in Hindi, “agar aap apne chappal nahi gizzoke tho aap kamyaabi nahi poagoe” that means we need to struggle a lot to taste the sweetness of success, it can’t be earned so easily. I know telling and writing these things are one thing and the practical world is different, but unless u believe in yourself, and your hard work nobody can stop u from achieving success, it may take some time we need to be patient , and keep our focus and dreams alive . Life without struggle is incomplete we need to enjoy the bad times even and be optimistic about it. Even famous personalities have struggled in their life; success doesn’t come so easily so be positive and work towards your goal because sky is the limit nobody has the power to stop you from achieving your dreams.

LOVE

Do you need any explanation on this, I don’t think so, but still love has different meaning for each one of us, , experience of love has different stories for all, the way u understand love is not necessary I will agree with u or u will agree with me, love comes with beautiful experiences, sweet moments, fights, arguments, sharing all the secrets, calling your loved one each day, speaking long hrs on phone, and rest of the things you guys know better, it’s a special bond of trust , bond of togetherness, but still it’s very difficult to figure out what exactly love is all about?????

Time has changed; with time the real meaning and understanding of love has taken completely different take, these days u may see many youngsters falling in love at very young age, having a good time with their partners, sharing a good time together, and without fearing they show the PDA……….as per gen x. Which is very cool and sexy, I am not against anyone in love or PDA, but my question lies in the quality of relationship which is shared by many youngsters today, when I look these youngsters, I feel there is so much of artificial feelings and relationship being shared for their own personal reasons. But today love is incomplete without sex, which is the common thought of everyone at this young age, really is this the real love all about may be not it’s far more than that. You may not agree with my thoughts, but every individual has different definition of love and its meaning, really it’s very difficult to express what love is all about and finding the true love is most difficult job, we never know when we will find it, but once we know that we have got our true love we will be on cloud nine, u feel so special, you feel being noticed, wanted, and important person to someone , we change a lot, it’s all together a beautiful time one can experience which can’t be explained, but has to be experienced.

Sometimes even though we find our true love, after knowing everything, about that person, is the best for you, will u get them?????? May be yes or no, may be for thousands of reasons u cannot be with that person , so what u do, you continue your relation with that person as a good friends, or like as per gen x style breakup…….. Its ok I will look for a new one, or let see the same situation with different angle, what if the person whom u r in love with is already in a relationship, so what u do?? You stop loving that person or continue to love that person even though knowing the fact that the person can’t be with u? What do you think on this???Even though knowing the fact u still loving that person not expecting anything in return, except the happiness and smile on their face, is the true love .

It is not necessary that u love a person to get that love in return, after all true love is a beautiful experience which has to be experienced at least once on our lives, I don’t know how you will react to this, whether u will agree or not, I respect your thoughts but I still feel love gives u happiness and sadness, after all this the true love. Finding true love is difficult, maintaining true love is most difficult, and accepting the hard truth of true love is the best way to accept things and respect it, and journey continues for those who are in still in search of the true love hope we will find it one day. Seeing your love happy cheerful and seeing that billion dollar smile on their face gives us the best feeling in the world, I think this is what true love all about……………..

Turning points

We have been always hearing this from everyone and every time about the turning points to be faced in our lives. Recently during the conversation with my friend harshad, we got into very deep discussion into this. we realized that we were always forced to take these turning points very seriously which started from our 7^th class board exams, then came, 10^th, 12^th, degree,job with good career, with more responsibilities, and getting married, the crucial turning point of every individual, later kids, and shaping their future, and these turning points keep continues, it’s still very unclear about an end to these tuning points we need to face in our lives.

The struggle continues with the time and challenges to perform always on a standard we have been maintained always, why these turning points come in our lives from time to time and stressed so important? Each phase of life we grow as individual with maturity, and start understanding about the way life is all about and much more about ourselves, it’s just like a game where we start from level 1 to the highest level, with more practice and games we play we get better and improve every time and our hunger to reach the top level keep increasing.

with time goes on, we live on year on year we finally understand the turning points of our lives is not with the world but it’s a battle which we fight unknowingly with ourselves to prove at every time at every stage , every step we take in the journey called life…………..

IN SEARCH OF NOTHING

What do we want in life????? , money, name, fame, success, happiness, peaceful life, and adventure, all the materialistic happiness, romance, and the list is never ending………..,do we know what our goal and the final destination ??

As we start our life, we dream about so many things, and we aspire to be a doctor, engineer, scientist, sports person, actor, and many other things. As a child we carry these dreams with us and work towards it. As we get old, we get better understanding of the world, we learn so many things and many a times we change our priorities also. We decide things on our own, set new goals, ignoring our parents, start taking important decision on our own. In this process we meet so many new people, increase our social network, and look forward to achieve new targets in life. As we get old we start searching for our better half, start a new life with them, things change once you pass out from college, we enter the world of reality, and hardship, where we need to prove ourselves at every step we take. We start earning, get busy in that life. It is this point where we start loosing ourselves, who we are, what were our dreams, what we want from life ,we get so busy that we hardly have time for ourselves , or for family and friends, just get stuck in that monotonous life without realizing that we got stuck into it.

At some point of time when finally life is about to finish we take rest and look back what we did these many years, and get upset about it because other than earning money we never cared for our family , friends, nor gave time to our children, and lost our passions and dreams somewhere in between that busy life. We realize that we have lost so many things. In this confusion we lost our passion and got stuck in many useless things.

I think it’s better to realize now then repenting later for loosing so many things, it’s very important for all of us to keep the interest ,hobbies, and passion alive in our heart .so don’t wait for tomorrow, start something new and exciting and things which you are good at , which keeps your passions alive and enjoy every moment of your life and find the path of your dreams and give your search the END….in knowing what you are, who you are, and what you want to be for yourself…………………………..

2nd innings

Very strange but true, life plays and gives us what we deserve at right time and right place. We aspire for many things in life like money, success, love, fame, name, we do work for it , but we don’t get succeed every time , we may be the best human being with true heart, still people don’t respect that. Today we live in the world of competition and artificial atmosphere; people come in our life if you are something big in terms of money, and other materialistic things, really we see this everyday .many of us even do that, but are we going the right way………………

I know everybody will get what they deserve the best at right time, why do people ignore the person who is very true, caring, who has always been there for his friends in time of need, but when this person needs them , they ignore this person, why is this , why do they were mask of fakeness around him and hurt the others and start ignoring the friend in time of need , but the confusion is between what the person wants from his own life , really this question is difficult to answer , but still the person will get his/her answers at right time. So we should take the bad time with right spirit and aim for better tomorrow and work towards a better peaceful life and ignore the world of artificial life and be the person who you are.

LET THE FIRE BURN IN YOUR HEART

When was the last time you tried doing something, but failed many times? But still you kept trying and did it finally, so how you felt after that? Those moments are priceless and best to experience. Many a times many of us don’t give our best efforts in what we do and we aim for success and adopt a shortcut to success. May be that shortcut might give you happiness for short time but not in the long run, you may be any one, each one of us has to be passionate in what we do. We may fail thousands of time but we should always give 100% and more dedication in our work, we should be passionate in whatever we do, each individual should work for the betterment and improvement of our work, don’t lose the passion for your work, there is a saying in Indian Army “JOSH KE SATH HOSH” do your work with passion and with common sense.

We find many inspirational stories from all walks of life, recently I was watching national geographic channel, I saw a blind man aiming to climb Mt Everest, with all his courage and determination he started his journey towards the summit, finally his dream became into reality, the best learning from this is that, even though he was blind he didn’t lose his hope he kept his dream alive and made it to the final summit of Mt Everest .this shows us that whatever the condition you are in we can achieve big things in life , we should keep the faith and believe in our dreams and move on. He was successful in defeating his fear from failure, and conquered his dreams.

So never lose hope, keep striving for betterment in what you do, what you are, and in your dreams, face every storm with confidence and be passionate in heart till the last breadth of your life and be a good human being and let the fire of hosh and josh keep burning in your heart and set an inspirational example to others to achieve their dreams.

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You must be wondering whats the topic, why is this question mark!!!! Really I am not getting the perfect title for my new thoughts, buts it’s an interesting topic, hope everyone will connect to it very well.

God has created human beings very differently and unique. When we compare ourselves with other living creatures we are so lucky, we got a beautiful mind to think and an idiotic mouth to speak always 24/7 nonstop, so are you happy to speak always unwanted or not happy to for not expressing what you want to express!!!!!!!

There are many situations we think about, we are different, if you compare yourself with others just for a moment, and you will find that you are special in some way or the other. Some people are always talkative, some prefer to be silent, and some prefer only quality talk. The question is do we speak out our mind completely? We are surrounded by parents, friends, relatives colleagues, most of the time we spent our time with these people, we share all the things with them, we share all our thoughts, happy and sad moments, with these people, but still at some point of time we can’t share each and everything with them so we share special secrets only with our most trusted friend, which makes us mind little easy.

Let’s see this from other side ……………………………………………..

Have you ever experienced a situation where in you are in a state of pain, agony and happiness, even in that situation you are surrounded by so many friends and beloved one whom u can trust the most, still you can’t find anyone whom u can really share your heart out, even your best friend or boy/girl friend in this case. At that point of time you feel so bad and frustrated, you feel so isolated and lonely from rest of the world .you start thinking why there is no one to listen to me or whom I can share my heart out without any hesitation. We keep looking for the perfect name in our phonebook but still we can’t find anyone. This situation is the worst and gives the picture of reality. At that point of time we try to know and try to communicate with ourselves in a better way .maybe we need to realize that at the end of the day if you can’t find someone to express your feelings and thoughts, and then the best person to whom we can communicate is to ourselves and the god.

So next time whenever you feel like you have missed your stage, audience and your mike, you know to whom you should speak to “YOURSELF AND THE GOD”

Silence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What is silence? I think it’s the most powerful tool, through which we can discover ourselves; silence has its own powers to change the circumstances without putting any efforts. It’s a medium through which we can discover our inner self or soul.

Do we give at least 5mts in a day to ourselves, I don’t think so. In this busy life where everyone is occupied by some work, we are always busy with something, meeting people, partying, hectic job, exam pressure, relationship problems, family pressure, and the list is never ending, during this course of time, we are preoccupied by all these so much that we hardly get time to know about ourselves better.

In age of techno, we speak, eat, and sleep technology so much, we are always on the phone or chatting, or doing some useless work, so do you find time to speak to yourself in this busy schedule??? NO!!!! When we ask ourselves this question the answer we get from within is no and we hardly think about it.

Silence helps us to grow our own abilities, its gives us the medium of exchange thoughts with our selves, just try once, something that I do often, if you are upset or low remain silent m don’t speak much, then do anything which you like at the most, go for walk, listen to music, go for coffee alone, or just spend time alone!! I know it’s difficult for all of us but believe me spending time alone, u can feel the real happiness from within, you will feel someone from the top is listening to you, you slowly get to communicate with the hidden soul within you. It will change your mood completely, believe me it works!!!!!!!!! Maybe you think and understand silence in other way but maybe we don’t want know what silence actually means , it’s a very tricky question to be answered but hope we discover ourselves first rather discovering everything , know and feel that silence is all about small beautiful moments which we share with our inner soul and knowing ourselves more better…………………………………………….

Happiness

When the last time you were happier, compared to all previous times, what made you happy so much!! for us happiness is state of achievement we feel happy and proud when we achieve big in life, may be getting good marks in exams, job promotion, when you love someone, when your child says your name for the first time, when you make your family proud, when you own things which you always wanted, when you see your dreams becoming reality.

Definitely all these moments are most beautiful in our lives, but my question is, is this the real happiness which we always think of. All these are materialistic happiness, and then you must be thinking which happiness I am talking about? I am talking about the happiness which we don’t see, we hardly find that real happiness from within, and I am speaking of the happiness from helping someone.

When was the last time you helped someone and felt you did something good and felt happy about it? Yes I think this is the real happiness according to me. We are so busy in our lives, that we hardly see any one, sometimes we don’t know what our own family members are up to. But when you look around you see so many people who want always in search of help in some form or other may be emotional help.

When you see an elderly person facing difficulty to cross the road, what you do? Just see them and you carry on or you help them crossing the road? When you see a small little child surrounded by his own problems, have you ever smiled at kids? Sometimes when you help anyone without any expectation or reward, you will feel more happy and satisfied. To see the smile on small kids face or toothless smile on an elderly person is priceless, when you help your own friends in problem you see the real happiness and you can feel that from within.

I think everyone of us need to help anyone in some way or the other , without expecting any reward, then at that moment you will discover the real happiness which you will never forget. It’s difficult for me to tell you how you feel but it’s the most best moment I feel every time when I make a difference to someone life in a good way.

So one can discover the real happiness in oneself and no where else.  

Is being too good too bad????????????????????

Hhhhhmmmmmmmmmm very strange but surprisingly I got this topic in my mind from where should I start; o.k. let me start from being very kind and extremely good.

We find many people who are related to us in many ways, every person has different character and attitude. Some people are gentle, kind, soft-spoken and shy, and some other are arrogant, and many other qualities.

Let’s see the world from the perspective of those people who are soft spoken, shy, who speak truth from the heart, these people believe the whole world in every sense, and they believe everyone and everything, whatever they see, listen from others. They are honest they speak truth from the heart, they don’t pretend to be someone else like everyone, they don’t wear the mask, they are very caring, helpful by nature, but still they fail to understand the dishonest and cunning world, they fail to notice the wrong acts of people and bad behavior of people towards them, they fail to notice how people are using them in all the possible ways , and taking their advantage of them, by being nice to them at one point in time and throwing them like a waste tissue paper after the use, really it’s the worst moment for any one, but this is the hard core truth , u need to take this .

Why do people disrespect honesty and kindness, today we see so many people projecting a fake identity around everyone, they pretend to be someone else, and who they are not!!!! On the other hand the world respects the people who are bad, corrupted, dishonest, who project a fake identity always, still knowing everything many of us still like to be with these kinds of people and follow them, agree to their tunes, and try to find their own means through them.

Why is this???????? Why do people dislike the good person so much, is being too honest is too bad?? Is being true to yourself bad??? Seriously I can’t figure it out still , but I still believe in being true to yourself and be what your are as a person , and don’t be someone else who you are not !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REWIND BUTTON

Our lives are surrounded by so many things, yet we don’t realize whole of our lives what we have gained or lost. We always desire for so many things, still we don’t get all of them, but we end up getting small little things which we are not happy with.

Why we make our beautiful life so much complicated knowing that it’s very simple. If we sit and think over it we can get some idea how we make our lives complicated for our own means. We think always unnecessary and unwanted thoughts, we forget to live in our present which we fail to enjoy it, and we always end up in our past and future and regret about it always and waste our precious time thinking over it, without realizing that we are losing our present which is very precious and most important part of our lives.

Its better we forget all the past whether it was good or bad, be happy whatever u are today , it’s important to know that we learn from those moments and move on in life !!!!!

All those beautiful moments and experiences make our life special

DOES ANYONE KNOW THE ANSWER?

Life is a challenge, it’s like game, some face it and some lose it. Every challenge whether small or big don’t make the difference , but the attitude with which we look at it makes the difference , without challenges life is incomplete , without experiencing it , life is boring . Problems are part and parcel of life, each one of us has to experience it, we cannot escape from these, and the way we look at those problems and handle it will lead us to the answers.

We know the answers but still we don’t know how to reach their…………………………………………….. 

SALT AND SUGUR

Life is a beautiful journey of experiences; some of them are most beautiful moments of our lives, which we experience with our loved ones, which give us the most satisfying feeling. At the same time life is not a straight road, we find ourselves in many twist and turns and fall in many ditches, do we face them or runaway from them is the big question we need to ask ourselves? But most of the times we always try to avoid these difficult situations and run away from then instead of facing them.

This does not mean that we should sit back and cry over it, instead fight back every time we fall and try to cross over it and take the road to success. Life is a journey, its combination of salt and sugar, some sweetness and some salty, so enjoy both together, without one another they will be incomplete.

MIND

Mind is so beautiful without any boundaries, has no limitations. Has any one of us thought about mind seriously at least once? We always take mind for granted. Has anyone used our mind seriously? Our mind is like a vast ocean, which has no limitations, an endless sky which has no boundaries. Our mind is so vast; it’s difficult to measure its capabilities, it can achieve the impossible things. It can imagine everything, it has superb visualization power. Do we use our minds to the fullest? We humans sometimes don’t value things which we have with us; we always look for things which are not important to us, we have such a beautiful mind with us, but do we make use of it. 

Every child has dreams, these dreams start from our young age when we were kids, we had dream of becoming something big in life, to be future doctor, pilot, cricketer, and many other roles, and start dreaming about owning big costly cars, have a big lavish life, so thinking such big starts at very young age, where we hardly know about the outside world. I think each one of us have done the same thing in different ways , if things can be realized at such a young age , then why do we lose the track of using our minds in a constructive way, as we grow old???

I would compare our mind with the small plant; its growth depends upon us, how much we take care of it. The more you care for the plant, give water regularly, its grows very fast and healthier, in the same way growth of the mind depends on us, the more we behave in negative manner, or think negative, our mind starts developing in negative way, it will always focus on wrong side of life, it will force us do wrong things even though we dislike it, slowly it will take control of us. 

Imagine our mind in do or die situation, we face many situations in life like that were we need to take decision very fast, at that point of time has any one of thought how fast our mind works, so many different thoughts flows in our minds at that point of time where we are clueless about things happening to us.

This is where we fail to learn about our minds, we fail to notice that how our mind reacts in different situation, we fail to test or judge our minds at different levels. But the question is still unanswered do we really understand our mind completely? May be no one will agree with me but somewhere everyone thinks of these things very much , and some of us are in search for these unknown answers , hope someday we get to know what this puzzle all about!!!!!!!!! 

Harsh surana

THE MASK

Who we are? Do we know ourselves better? Why we are lost and confused with our identity .why we pretend so much and act who we are not. Why we put so many different faces and project different image of ourselves in front of world .does anyone know who the real person behind these mask are? At the end of the day we ourselves don’t know who we are?

Why do we hide our real identity to this world? Every one of us at some point of time pretend to be someone who we are not. May be sometimes circumstances makes us that way, if we keep aside that thought for a while most of the time we were fake image in front of ourselves and others, we tell a person as dearest, but back in our mind you curse about that person, u tend to be loyal friend, but you break the trust of your friend. You make thousands of promises to close peers, at the same time you cheat them, you greet the person with fake smile and happiness, when you don’t like your teacher, you pretend to be the best student of his, when u hate your boss the most, still u pretend to be his best employee and agree to his word to word.

Why do we follow the world and try to project what world expects from us, why do we try so hard every time to impress and pretend who we are not, why can’t we simply be what we are.?? Will there be a point where we find ourselves from this world of hidden identity?

Has some one thought the reason behind this fake identity May be, but do we have the answers with us. Our selfish means and wants makes us to be fake and unreal , but how long is the big question , does it has any end to it , maybe you will not get any answers from what I have written , but u need to ask yourselves this question and try to find these answers from within!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

“EXPECTATIONS”

Why do we expect so much from others and ourselves, does anyone have answers for this, probably not? This starts from our birth till death, this word is used very often in our lives, our parents expect many big things from all of us, and their expectations from us are somewhere linked to their own happiness. During this course of journey called life we meet so many people, we become close to many and associate ourselves with these different individuals and we start expecting many things from them for our own benefits, so why do we expect so much from others so much??? even though we realize that nothing is going to benefit from it, even then we cry for more and more …………………………

Some times when we pass through the difficult stage of any relationship we see differences growing between us very much, the relationship loses its spark for some time, and then we realize that we are heading in a wrong direction, but not everyone will realize that they are going wrong, they may not even bother about it. still this question is unanswered, it’s very strange to realize that how much we expect from others so much and others expects so much from us , but how much we expect from ourselves ………………………………… do we have an answer for it! I don’t think so.

Again we are on ground zero why do we expect so much from others, hope one day we will get those answers, and start expecting more from ourselves to lead a more meaning full life.

Harsh Surana
4th April, 2009